Train up a child in the way he should go...Prov. 22:6a
This short object lesson is an affective way to encourage young people to give their lives to Christ at a young age.
Bring 2 pieces of wood. 2x4’s about 12 inches long work nicely. Have one piece nice and new and the other old and weathered. (You can find abundance of old scrapes at a lumber yard.)
Read Eccles. 12:1 and give a simple talk about how much better it is to give our lives to Christ while we are young and healthy. Show them the new board. Then you can talk about pursuing other things in life. It could be money, fame, drugs, etc. while holding up the old board. At the end ask them which board a carpenter would prefer using.
Items needed: A small pouch or bag with several small stones or buttons in it. You will also need one large stone or button to represent the “Pearl of Great Price”. Before the service put 4 of the “pearls” and the big “pearl” in different places around the front. (Ex. A corner of a pew, on the piano, etc.)
The first 3 “pearls” you can have in your bag and pull them out as you talk about each one. Then walk around as though you are looking in windows for more “pearls”. Find the other 4, one or two at a time, and talk about them.
Text: Matthew 13:45, 46
These pearls represent what different people are seeking for in life.
1. Friendship: No one likes to be alone all the time. It’s ok to
friends as long as they are the right kind of friends.
2. Security: This may be roots in a community or home. It may be
stocks or bonds.
3. Wealth: Money, riches, treasures, jewels. Jesus tells us to lay
up treasures in heaven, not on earth.
4. Fame: A big name for ourselves. If you want to be truly great
then be willing to do the dirty job.
5. Honor: People look up to you. The Bible shows us the true road
to honor- Prov. 21:21; 22:4
6. Happiness: This is sometimes sought for in the wrong places.
Some things do not really satisfy.
7. Society: Clubs, banquets, parties.
Our pearl buyer has all these but he is still not satisfied. He is
still looking for “that Pearl”. Outside of Christ nothing can
Walk by the “Pearl of Great Price” and stop to admire it. Then “step inside” to inquire of the price.
Pearl of Great Price:
1. He doesn’t have enough money to buy it.
2. He sells some of his pearls but still does not have enough.
3. He finally sells all.
We have to let go of everything in order to find Jesus. Many times He allows us to have some of these things but we have to be willing to give them up.
Items needed: a toy doctor’s bag or stethoscope, something to represent exercise (small barbell, etc.), a small pillow, and a food box or bag.
1. Check-up. Call attention to the doctor’s kit. We need a check-up to keep things ok and to find out if anything is wrong.
2. Exercise. Hold up barbell. Exercise is activity for training or developing the body or mind; especially for the sake of health. There are different kinds of exercise; exercise takes discipline.
3. Rest. Show small pillow. This is an important part of our physical fitness.
4. Proper diet. Hold up food. To be physically fit we need to eat the right kinds of food.
1. Check-up. We need to have the Lord check us over. We need to renew our commitments. Psa. 139:23; Psa. 57:7
2. Exercise. Bible quizzes and Sword-drills are one form of exercise. Reading the Bible through is good discipline. Stretching our prayer lives to reach others. 1 Tim. 4:7; Gen. 46:21 (This reference is correct. There are many such verses, but it is still God’s Word and it is good for us to read the Bible through.)
3. Rest. It’s good to occasionally get quiet before the Lord. Psa. 46:10; Isa. 40:31; Psa. 23:2
4. Proper diet. Church attendance, prayer and Bible reading, good wholesome books are just a few of the things that should make up our diet as a Christian. Psa. 55:17; Matt. 26:41; I Pet. 2:2; II Tim. 3:16
Watch out for food poisoning! Some books may not be good for us. Some places may not be good for us to go to. II Cor.6:17
(Display a salt shaker)
Matt. 5:13 Ye are the salt of the earth: but if the salt have lost his savor, wherewith shall it be salted? It is thenceforth good for nothing, but to be cast out, and to be trodden under foot of men.
Characteristics of salt:
Burns Melts ice
Flavors food Makes you thirsty
There is enough material here to stretch this out over several lessons. The number and variety of props is only limited by your imagination. You could start out by walking in carrying a suitcase and wearing a pair of sunglasses. Then throughout the lesson use maps, home-made street signs, a model car, etc.
First, let’s look at our destination. Usually one of the first things we decide is where we are going.
Only 2 choices- Deut. 30:19
· Broad- Matt. 7:13
· Crowded- Matt. 7:13
· Dark- Prov. 4:19
· Crooked- Isa. 59:8
· Hard- Prov. 13:15
· Lack of help- Prov. 1:26-28
· Narrow- Matt. 7:14
· Just 2- Heb. 13:5
· Light- Prov. 4:18
· Straight- Heb. 12:13
· Delightful- Psa. 119:35
· Promises- Isa. 43:2
Let’s get out the road map and take a look at the routes.
· Waste and destruction- Isa. 59:7
· Wrong way- Jer. 7:24
· Toll master- the devil- Eph. 2:2
· Mercy and truth- Psa. 25:10
· Right way- Isa 30:21
· Jesus, our Guide- Luke 1:79
What’s at the end of the road?
· Death- Rom. 6:23
· Destruction- Phil. 3:19
· Burning- Rev. 21:8
· Everlasting life- Jn. 3:16
· Mansion- Jn. 14:2
· Heaven- Rev. 21:1
What do you consider is essential to any trip?
Essentials for our trip:
· Standards and convictions
Non-essentials: (Heb. 12:1)
· Fads and fashions
· Extravagant clothes, worldly hair styles, friends, books, family
· Earthly possessions
· Non-essentials will be different for different people.
Our road map through life is the Bible. (Heb. 4:12)
· Inspired of God- 2 Tim. 3:16; 2 Pet. 1:21
We need to study God’s Word.
Jn. 5:39; Deut. 11:18,19
We need to reverence God’s Word.
Reverence- To show devotion and honor to; to respect, adore, and worship. To regard with profound respect and honor. Psa. 89:7
Absolutely trustworthy. 1Ki. 8:56
Now let’s look at our car.
First there are many sizes and shapes. There are many callings and talents in life. We are not all the same.
· I Cor. 12:17-20
· Various gifts- Rom. 12:6-8
· There are varying degrees of ability. Matt. 25:15
But we are all God’s ambassadors. 2 Cor. 5:20
Ambassador- A diplomatic agent of the highest rank sent with letters of authorization to a foreign government as the resident representative of his own government; appointed to a special and often temporary diplomatic assignment.
Ok, we have a car; now let’s look at some of the features it has.
Gas gauge- E or F
· Devotional life- Psa. 55:17; Duet. 17:19
· Church attendance- Heb. 10:25
· Divine fellowship- Psa. 73:28
Headlights- letting our light shine
· Matt. 5:14-16
Radio- lots of confusion & static but we can be tuned to heavenly things
· Col. 3:1, 2
Gear shift- We are not always driving on the interstate. There will be many stops, starts, and slow downs.
· Park- there will be times of being still. Psa. 46:10
· Reverse- I am sorry. Psa. 103:14
· Drive- Isa. 40:31
Anti-freeze- warm in the cold places, cool in the heat (sanctification)
· Acts 7:55; 2 Tim. 2:21; 1Thess. 5:23; Rom. 6:6
Along the way
· Gas stations- Acts 3:19
· Rest stops- Psa. 4:4
· Detours- Psa. 37:23
· Pot holes- 1 Pet. 5:8
· Long dry stretches- Psa. 63:1
· Beautiful views- Psa. 68:19
· Wrong turn
· Road construction
· Traffic jam
· Car trouble
· Long distance
Items needed: A simple household flashlight that is easy to take apart, several flashlights of various sizes and shapes.
Text: Matthew 5:14-16
Switch the light on and off a couple of times, then take it apart to show the different parts as you talk about them.
If we are a Christian then our light should shine for Jesus. The bulb is what everyone sees. What do they see in you?
· Our light should glorify God. Matt. 5:16
· Our light should be an example to others. Titus 2:7
· Our light should
not be dimmed by grumbling, fault-finding, etc.
This reflects the light and makes it brighter. Sanctification makes us brighter Christians and gives us strength. Acts 1:8; 2 Tim. 2:21
It’s hard to let the light through if it is dirty. Keep things clear between you and God and between you and others. Acts 24:16; I Peter 3:16
This is the real life of the flashlight. If it is weak the light will be dim. If it is corroded it will not work at all. This is a good example of our devotional life.
There are 2 poles or terminals to a battery. It takes both prayer and Bible reading to keep our lights shining.
· Prayer: Matt. 26:41 Eph. 6:18
· Bible reading: Psa. 119:105 1 Pet. 2:2
· Remember—A weak battery means a weak light!
Display a variety of flashlights. There are many different kinds of flashlights: different sizes, shapes and purposes. God has a place for each of us. 1 Cor. 12:8-11
Items needed: a small chest or tool box, level, saw, crow bar, nails, hammer, blueprints (can be home made), and 2 pieces of wood; one nice and new, the other old and rotten.
Have a small chest or tool box displayed on a table at the front and as you talk about the different tools lay them out on the table.
We can’t guess at our measurements. Well, this board looks about the right length we’ll use it here.
God’s Word is like the tape measure: it tells us how to live and how to make it to heaven. Psa. 119:11
We use a level to be sure our boards are straight. Can you imagine a house with boards leaning every-which-way?
We need a time of devotions to keep us level in this life. Spend some time every day in prayer and Bible reading. Deut. 17:19; Eph. 6:18
It would be pretty hard to build a house without a saw.
Occasionally we may have to cut some things out of our lives; someplace we go, something we read, something we do, etc. Matt. 5:30
Maybe we got one of our boards nailed up crooked or it’s warped a little bit. We have to pry it up and replace it.
We are only human and we will make mistakes and may mess things up. But we can ask the Lord to forgive us. Don’t go on and try to cover things up. Ocassionally we have to say “I’m sorry”. 1 Jn. 2:1
house would not be very strong if you just stacked the boards around
and didn’t bother to nail them. Nails have sharp points but they are
important to building our house.
None of us like to go through temptations and trials but they help us to be strong in the Lord. Job 23:10
It pounds the nail in but it also pulls the nail out.
God’s love allows things to come our way but only what we can take and what will help us be better Christians. 1 Cor. 10:13
There are all sizes and shapes of houses; all serving a good purpose.
God has a blueprint for each one of us. We need to let Him build us and shape us according to His plan. Duet. 10:12
Here is a nice smooth new board and here is an old half rotted one. Which would you like to use in your house?
We need to give our hearts and lives to God while we are young. He can do a lot more with us when we are “new” then if we wait till we are old and our life is almost over. Eccl. 12:1
John 15:5 I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit: for without me ye can do nothing.
· Good soil- Luke 8:8
In order to thrive a plant needs good soil. Luke 8:8
A good environment- we don’t go to places that have bad environments
· Testing the pH level in the soil- II Tim. 2
We need to maintain a proper balance of prayer and Bible reading, church attendance, etc.
· Cultivate the soil- Colossians 3:13
You need to keep the ground soft and loosened up.
We must keep the channels clear between others and ourselves even if it may not be our fault.
· Fertilize- Luke 13:6-9
Fertilizing the plant helps it to grow strong, bear better fruit and helps the soil have the nutrients needed for good growth.
So how are we fertilized spiritually? By attending revival services, having those special times of prayer, meditating on God’s Word, etc.
· Water- Ezekiel 34:26; Revelation 22:17
It is hard for a plant to exist without water.
God’s blessings are essential to our well being spiritually. He blesses us in so many ways!
· Pruning- John 15:2
Pruning trims up the plant for a pleasing look, cuts away the dead and unnecessary part, and makes a more productive plant.
God from time to time needs to trim things out of our lives so that we can be more pleasing to Him, be more productive and to clear away unnecessary things in our lives that may hinder us from making it to heaven.
· Sunlight- 2 Corinthians 4:6, Revelation 21:23
Sunlight is essential for proper growth.
We cannot exist spiritually without Christ.
Hosea 10:12 Sow to yourselves in righteousness, reap in mercy; break up your fallow ground: for it is time to seek the Lord, till he come and rain righteousness upon you.
beginning of your session you could have a number of items in a sack
or in your pocket or purse. Items can include: a cell phone, keys,
coins, pocket knife, handkerchief, pencil, nail, piece of paper,
screw, toy car, etc. Pull them out while making up some conversation
about all the things you carry. Maybe your spouse thinks you carry
to much stuff, etc.
Put everything away and then see if they can remember each item you showed them.)
Remember: Keep in mind for attention or
consideration. Have and bring to mind a memory of something; bring
back knowledge from memory. Mention favorably, as in prayer. Call to
remembrance; keep alive the memory of someone or something. To think
Remembrance: The ability to recall past occurrences.
Memory: The power of retaining and recalling past experience. Something that is remembered.
We like to be remembered. On our birthday or Christmas, it’s nice to know people are thinking about us.
And God remembered Noah, and every living thing, and all the cattle that was with him in the ark: and God made a wind to pass over the earth, and the waters asswaged;
And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when he overthrew the cities in the which Lot dwelt.
And God remembered Rachel, and God hearkened to her, and opened her womb.
And if ye go to war in your land against the enemy that oppresseth you, then ye shall blow an alarm with the trumpets; and ye shall be remembered before the LORD your God, and ye shall be saved from your enemies.
1 Samuel 1:19
And they rose up in the morning early, and worshipped before the LORD, and returned, and came to their house to Ramah: and Elkanah knew Hannah his wife; and the LORD remembered her.
Who remembered us in our low estate: for his mercy endureth for ever:
The memory of the just is blessed: but the name of the wicked shall rot.
Surely he shall not be moved for ever: the righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance.
But think on me when it shall be well with thee, and shew kindness, I pray thee, unto me, and make mention of me unto Pharaoh, and bring me out of this house:
And Samson called unto the LORD, and said, O Lord GOD, remember me, I pray thee, and strengthen me, I pray thee, only this once, O God, that I may be at once avenged of the Philistines for my two eyes.
1 Samuel 1:11
And she vowed a vow, and said, O LORD of hosts, if thou wilt indeed look on the affliction of thine handmaid, and remember me, and not forget thine handmaid, but wilt give unto thine handmaid a man child, then I will give him unto the LORD all the days of his life, and there shall no razor come upon his head.
Verily I say unto you, Wheresoever this gospel shall be preached in the whole world, there shall also this, that this woman hath done, be told for a memorial of her.
Remember not the sins of my youth, nor my transgressions: according to thy mercy remember thou me for thy goodness' sake, O LORD.
For I will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will I remember no more.
And he said unto Jesus, Lord, remember me when thou comest into thy kingdom.
Oblivion: the condition of being completely forgotten; the state of being disregarded or forgotten.
The face of the LORD is against them that do evil, to cut off the remembrance of them from the earth.